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Badhai do! Hum tayyar hain!

But are we?

Indian Cinema has come a long way in portraying the queer community in movies/shows and one can mark a difference in the plots concerning them.


Badhai Do Movie: Image Source KoiMoi
Badhai Do Movie: Image Source KoiMoi


Effeminate characters in the plot

Earlier, a mere effeminate character in the plot as a comedian or antagonist

with no significant role in the film would suffice. Take Sangharsh for instance, a movie released in 1999 portraying Ashutosh Rana as a bloodthirsty serial killer, Vettaiyaadu Vilaiyaadu (Tamil movie released in 2006) consisting of a couple were serial killers. Bombay Velvet (released in

2015) depicting Karan Johar’s character as a vicious one (Kaizad Khambatta), all pushing the

audience into believing and developing queer-phobia.




Having said that, there have been undeniably brilliant scrips written like Fire (1996) directed

by Mira Nayyar, delicately and subtly rendering both queer characters pivotal in the movie.


Cut to recently released, Badhaai Do (2022), written by the writer of Badhaai Ho (2018),

Akshat Gildhial, throws light on the concept of lavender marriage that commonly exists in

our society today to hinge on a happier future of both the parties in the tie.


A take on two socially-suppressed human beings from the LGBTQ

The ones from the community that eventually give in to the pressure of “settling down” by their families - A twist in the tale - this is their well-kept secret. The storyline is comical with main focus on the lives of the characters. Rajkumar Rao (Shardul Thakur) is a police

officer while Suman Singh plays a physical trainer in a school. Both have an encounter with

each other over a dating app mishap where Suman Singh is catfished by a boy instead of a

girl. On learning about the orientation of Sumi (Suman Singh), Shardul feels confident to

come out of the closet and suggests a wed lock between the two to escape the mounting

barbs from their folks.



Bhumi Pednekar Image Source Vogue India
Bhumi Pednekar Image Source Vogue India

Just as they feel, they’ve conquered the impossible, Shardul’s family

begins to nudge them for a child. After many failed attempts, Shardul’s mother is sent to spy

on them to learn about the predicaments they must be facing in their marriage to not have

a kid in time. Eventually the story unfolds in a predictable manner of everyone finding out

the truth about each of them ; Shardul being gay and Sumi being a lesbian, however after

reproving of their orientation in the most insensitive manner, they come on agreeable

terms with the arrangement. There is an adopted child involved in the set-up as Sumi always

wanted one and Shardul happily agrees for the same.


A simple arrangement

This simple arrangement portrayed in the end come with a lot of complexities (not in reel

but in real life). Despite the attempt to make this movie a typical Bollywood one with main

focus on LGBTQ community in our country, the movie seems slightly unrealistic.


The inclusion of a child in the wed-lock made me wonder in worry for psychological impact it

would have on child in future and the confusion that would prevail. I understand the reason

why such step may have been taken as India doesn’t recognize same-sex marriage or civil

unions until now.


However, a lack of commitment from LGBTQ partners in future with no

legal union may become traumatic for the kid. With Indian culture of families being

participative in every phase of our lives, lavender marriage still remains a dreamy concept.

The real question is – is our Indian society ready to accept LGBTQ community as equal as

humans of other orientation?



Rajkumar Rao: Image Source The Indian Express
Rajkumar Rao: Image Source The Indian Express

I wouldn’t say the plot of the movie was flat as it definitely was an eye opener for many,

however the concept could have been less dramatized and the reaction of the folks could

have been slightly positive to render themselves as inspiration for many parents out there

who’ve been struggling to accept their kids as they are.



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